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Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Black Pepper Maniac 黑胡椒狂人


I am a black pepper maniac.  
I love to have very fresh grounded black pepper on almost everything I have: congee, soup, salad, spaghetti, my favorite penne rigate... I even had to ground some on the Tuna Sandwiches I made last week, even i had a few bites already.

When I was a little girl, I was told in Chinese tradition that pepper could help us to reduce unwanted gas in our digest system.  I guess im over-practice this :P

I guess I have the smug faces whenever I ground my very-own black pepper grinder at home.  But it is not a matter of prestige.  I am probably another childish kid who loves to play with the grinder, enjoy the action, the sound made, and seeing different pieces fall into my bowl and smell the freshness of the pepper.

Being adopting natural consume of food intake and beware of detoxification, somehow I have battles within me for I have been an extreme person in my entire life.  Workaholic, blackpepperholic, alcoholic... I do try my best to stay calm and live in slow pace at most of the time.  

The book Fight Club, by my favorite author Palahniuk stated we are living in this modern era with a kitchen full of condiments instead of fresh food.  So true!  When I first got the chance to set my very own first home as a newly wed, i filled my kitchen with lots of of 'new toys' and I got stabbed by the family, cos they adopt fresh food strategy in life and all they can find in my kitchen were instant drinks, instant foods, frozen food, and my museum of western condiments which they hadnt seen before... 

I know I should have better control off those condiments but no matter what, I cant get it out of my little condiment tray.  I did take a good look at my tray and concluded that I can lost all of them, but not my very own personal black pepper grinder, with black pepper always filled in, of cause.  

So, one day if you want to bring me a little gift, this is it :) 
A little personal note in a small card would be a big plus.

"Things that we owned, end up owning us" by Palahniuk.
I am trying my best to practice a free state of mind for not trying to own anything in my life, not anything materistically.  I guess we somehow try to define who we are, by having the materials in life, which isnt healthy style of living.



你一定還未遇過黑胡椒狂人吧!
我就是了:)我幾乎是無黑胡椒不歡的。當然我最享受是在家裡親自為我自己的食物磨上一些香噴噴的黑胡椒。粥湯沙拉粉面類我都不會嫌多。
我的飲食之道是減少調味料,可是既是我能把其它的多扔掉,黑胡椒是少不了了。我也知道不能過量,也只是心血來潮寫來跟大家聊聊罷了。
我是極端的擁護者。我也身受極端的弊處。身為美容顧問我還是提倡大家一定要多喝水,多蔬果,多五穀類,多睡眠,少肉,少調味料,少咖啡因/酒精。



The Seven-year Period

This typical terms would remind most of us for the movie by this famous flim image, The 7 Year Itch, by M.Monroe.... that we get bored in our marriage and looking for an affair.  NO, I'm not talking about marriage here today.

In western world, there is a paradox about the 7-year circle, that every seven year there are some significant issues happen in our life.  It is said we would have something special in our 7th, 14th, 21st, 28th, 35th, 42th birthdays and so forth.  I find it interesting and try listing out my life here as echo to one of my blogger friends' blog here

Jane@7-year-old
Couldnt remember much about it except I have taken a good photo in this age that I keep till today.

Jane@14-year-old
I was in first formal year of Secondary school and I have made many good friends in this year, which lasted till today.  We share the very same life perspective, art and music. 
And, I moved for the very first time in my life.  There starts my non-stop tragedy of not able to stay in one place for more than 5 years in my life... from 14 till 33 last year.

Jane@21-year-old
I experience the poorest life I had in my life and seen the darkest of one's life.  I was picked up and tried my best to bounce back as much as I could.  Of cos, I did it.

Jane@28-year-old
I had an unpredicted pregnancy, and my child was born the next year.

Two more years to my 5th circle and i will tell you about it in Xmas of 2010 when I would have just passed my 35th birthday.  The best I could predict it has something to do with my marriage.  Of cos, I do wish life is full of surprises :)

Now, please share me about yours :)




Sunday, March 01, 2009

The big wind blows.....“大風吹,吹走有小雞雞的人!”



“大風吹,吹走有小雞雞的人!”
“大風吹,吹走有牙肉的人!”
“大風吹,吹走有今天有大便過的人!”

:)


The big wind blows away everyone who has... a little dick!!
- cousin sis was blushed cos she would have lost her place

The big wind blows away everyone who has... a gum!!
-everyone laughed instead of start moving

The big wind blows away everyone who has... shit this morning!!
-no one moves! God! U guys got motion issues??!?!
:DDD





Saturday, February 28, 2009

你知道國學嗎?GUOXUE






你知道國學嗎?以最新的科學方法將舊學分科整治,摘其粹存其真。

Are you aware of the new Chinese study namely Guoxue?  It is a study in mixture of our culture of 5000 years in one.  We are not to be bound with questions under our neck by the culture anymore.  Please find out more from: 
Appreciate Guoxue as it is



Friday, February 27, 2009

For my little elf, 魂牽夢繞的一天。

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魂牽夢繞的一天。
我又上了情債的當。
一日一夜為了你魂牽夢繞。
夜深之時,以為有你在旁。
日出之時,蕩漾的心照灑滿了的是你。

*魂牽夢繞 could literally metaphor mind and soul is being captured, exaggerated, of cos.
魂牽夢繞的一天。
Hun(soul) Qian(take) Meng(dream) Rao(take) de yi tian(one day)
Soul taken Dream is being strained, for one day.

我又上了情債的當。
Wo (me) you(again) shang le(get into) qing(love) zhai(debt) de dang(trap)
Im being fooled by the emotional debts again - metaphor: fooled by fact/reality/by own desire of love

一日一夜為了你魂牽夢繞。
yi re yi ye (one day & night) wei(becos) le ni(you) hun qian meng rao
A day and night to hold you in thoughts

夜深之時,以為有你在旁。
ye shen zhi shi, yi wei (thought) you (have) ni(you) zai(be) pang(side)
During dark hours, I thought of you being side of me.

日出之時,蕩漾的心照灑滿了的是你。
re(sun) chu(out) zhi shi(time), dang yang(shaken/moving) de xin(heart) zhao(put on) sha(too full and fallen) man (too full) le de shi(is) ni(you)
During daytime, shades of light metaphor the shaken heart, is all over on the floor with, you.

The last two lines simply exaggerated how one has captured the other's mind for a whole day with the description of darkness & sun shades at sight.

Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Can You Become a Creature of New Habits?

Published: May 4, 2008

HABITS are a funny thing. We reach for them mindlessly, setting our brains on auto-pilot and relaxing into the unconscious comfort of familiar routine. “Not choice, but habit rules the unreflecting herd,” William Wordsworth said in the 19th century. In the ever-changing 21st century, even the word “habit” carries a negative connotation.

So it seems antithetical to talk about habits in the same context as creativity and innovation. But brain researchers have discovered that when we consciously develop new habits, we create parallel synaptic paths, and even entirely new brain cells, that can jump our trains of thought onto new, innovative tracks.

Rather than dismissing ourselves as unchangeable creatures of habit, we can instead direct our own change by consciously developing new habits. In fact, the more new things we try — the more we step outside our comfort zone — the more inherently creative we become, both in the workplace and in our personal lives.

But don’t bother trying to kill off old habits; once those ruts of procedure are worn into the hippocampus, they’re there to stay. Instead, the new habits we deliberately ingrain into ourselves create parallel pathways that can bypass those old roads.

“The first thing needed for innovation is a fascination with wonder,” says Dawna Markova, author of “The Open Mind” and an executive change consultant for Professional Thinking Partners. “But we are taught instead to ‘decide,’ just as our president calls himself ‘the Decider.’ ” She adds, however, that “to decide is to kill off all possibilities but one. A good innovational thinker is always exploring the many other possibilities.”

All of us work through problems in ways of which we’re unaware, she says. Researchers in the late 1960s discovered that humans are born with the capacity to approach challenges in four primary ways: analytically, procedurally, relationally (or collaboratively) and innovatively. At puberty, however, the brain shuts down half of that capacity, preserving only those modes of thought that have seemed most valuable during the first decade or so of life.

The current emphasis on standardized testing highlights analysis and procedure, meaning that few of us inherently use our innovative and collaborative modes of thought. “This breaks the major rule in the American belief system — that anyone can do anything,” explains M. J. Ryan, author of the 2006 book “This Year I Will...” and Ms. Markova’s business partner. “That’s a lie that we have perpetuated, and it fosters mediocrity. Knowing what you’re good at and doing even more of it creates excellence.”

This is where developing new habits comes in. If you’re an analytical or procedural thinker, you learn in different ways than someone who is inherently innovative or collaborative. Figure out what has worked for you when you’ve learned in the past, and you can draw your own map for developing additional skills and behaviors for the future.

“I apprentice myself to someone when I want to learn something new or develop a new habit,” Ms. Ryan says. “Other people read a book about it or take a course. If you have a pathway to learning, use it because that’s going to be easier than creating an entirely new pathway in your brain.”

Ms. Ryan and Ms. Markova have found what they call three zones of existence: comfort, stretch and stress. Comfort is the realm of existing habit. Stress occurs when a challenge is so far beyond current experience as to be overwhelming. It’s that stretch zone in the middle — activities that feel a bit awkward and unfamiliar — where true change occurs.

“Getting into the stretch zone is good for you,” Ms. Ryan says in “This Year I Will... .” “It helps keep your brain healthy. It turns out that unless we continue to learn new things, which challenges our brains to create new pathways, they literally begin to atrophy, which may result in dementiaAlzheimer’s and other brain diseases. Continuously stretching ourselves will even help us lose weight, according to one study. Researchers who asked folks to do something different every day — listen to a new radio station, for instance — found that they lost and kept off weight. No one is sure why, but scientists speculate that getting out of routines makes us more aware in general.”

She recommends practicing a Japanese technique called kaizen, which calls for tiny, continuous improvements.

“Whenever we initiate change, even a positive one, we activate fear in our emotional brain,” Ms. Ryan notes in her book. “If the fear is big enough, the fight-or-flight response will go off and we’ll run from what we’re trying to do. The small steps in kaizen don’t set off fight or flight, but rather keep us in the thinking brain, where we have access to our creativity and playfulness.”

Simultaneously, take a look at how colleagues approach challenges, Ms. Markova suggests. We tend to believe that those who think the way we do are smarter than those who don’t. That can be fatal in business, particularly for executives who surround themselves with like-thinkers. If seniority and promotion are based on similarity to those at the top, chances are strong that the company lacks intellectual diversity.

“Try lacing your hands together,” Ms. Markova says. “You habitually do it one way. Now try doing it with the other thumb on top. Feels awkward, doesn’t it? That’s the valuable moment we call confusion, when we fuse the old with the new.”

AFTER the churn of confusion, she says, the brain begins organizing the new input, ultimately creating new synaptic connections if the process is repeated enough.

But if, during creation of that new habit, the “Great Decider” steps in to protest against taking the unfamiliar path, “you get convergence and we keep doing the same thing over and over again,” she says.

“You cannot have innovation,” she adds, “unless you are willing and able to move through the unknown and go from curiosity to wonder.”

Janet Rae-Dupree writes about science and emerging technology in Silicon Valley.

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Birthdays

Your Birthdate: June 15
You take life as it is, and you find happiness in a variety of things.
You tend to be close to family and friends. But it's hard to get into your inner circle.
Making the little things wonderful is important to you, and you probably have an inviting home.
You seek harmony with others, but occasionally you have a very stubborn streak.

Your strength: Your intense optimism

Your weakness: You shy away from exploring your talents

Your power color: Jade

Your power symbol: Flower

Your power month: June


Your Birthdate: November 1
You are a natural born leader, even if those leadership talents haven't been developed yet.
You have the power and self confidence to succeed in life, and your power grows daily.
Besides power, you also have a great deal of creativity that enables you to innovate instead of fail.
You are a visionary, seeing the big picture instead of all of the trivial little details.

Your strength: Your supreme genius

Your weakness: Your inappropriate sensitivity

Your power color: Gold

Your power symbol: Star

Your power month: January

Your Birthdate: November 9
You are a born idealist, with more pet causes than you can count.
You prefer be around others, both when working and while relaxing.
Generous and giving, you believe you can change the world one person at a time.
You're open minded and tolerant. People feel like they can tell you anything.

Your strength: Your go-with-the-flow flexibility

Your weakness: Your flair for the over dramatic

Your power color: Pine green

Your power symbol: Circle

Your power month: September

Your Birthdate: November 4
You have an extraordinary character - moral, responsible, and disciplined.
Your sincerely and honesty shine through in almost every situation.
Driven and focused, you rarely let your emotions get the better of you.
You're level headed and rational. People count on your to look at things objectively.

Your strength: Your unwavering loyalty and ethics

Your weakness: Your rock solid stubbornness

Your power color: Navy blue

Your power symbol: Shield

Your power month: April

Your Birthdate: August 3
You are more than a big ball of energy - you are a big ball of hyper.
You are always on the go, but you don't have a type a personality.
Instead of channeling your energy into work, you instead go for fun and adventure.
Witty and verbal, you can have an interesting conversation with anyone.

Your strength: Your larger than life imagination

Your weakness: You tend to be pretty scattered

Your power color: Lime

Your power symbol: Lightening bolt

Your power month: March

Your Birthdate: August 10
Independent and dominant, you tend to be the alpha dog in most situations.
You're very confident, and hardly anything ever shakes you.
Mundane tasks tend to drain you - you prefer to be making great plans.
You are quite original. When people don't "get" you, it bothers you a lot.

Your strength: Your ability to gain respect

Your weakness: Caring too much what others think

Your power color: Orange-red

Your power symbol: Letter X

Your power month: October

Your Birthdate: September 27
You are a spiritual soul - a person who tries to find meaning in everything.
You spend a good amount of time meditating, trying to figure out life.
Helping others is also important to you. You enjoy social activities with that goal.
You are very generous and giving. Yet you expect very little in return.

Your strength: Getting along with anyone and everyone

Your weakness: Needing a good amount of downtime to recharge

Your power color: Cobalt blue

Your power symbol: Dove

Your power month: September


Your Birthdate: May 12
You're a dynamic, charismatic person who's possibly headed for fame.
You tend to charm strangers easily. And you usually can get what you want from them.
Verbally talented, you tend to persuade people with your speaking and writing.
You are affectionate and loving, but it's hard for you to commit to any one relationship.

Your strength: Your charm

Your weakness: Your extreme manipulation tactics

Your power color: Indigo

Your power symbol: Four leaf clover

Your power month: December

Your Birthdate: July 5
You have many talents, and you are great at sharing those talents with others.
Most people would be jealous of your clever intellect, but you're just too likeable to elicit jealousy.
Progressive and original, you're usually thinking up cutting edge ideas.
Quick witted and fast thinking, you have difficulty finding new challenges.

Your strength: Your superhuman brainpower

Your weakness: Your susceptibility to boredom

Your power color: Tangerine

Your power symbol: Ace

Your power month: May

Your Birthdate: February 17
You tend to find yourself lucky - both in business and in life.
And while being wealthy is nice, you enjoy sharing your abundance with others.
You put your luck to good use: you are very ambitious and goal oriented.
Often times, you get over excited and take on more than you can manage.

Your strength: Your ability to make your own luck

Your weakness: Thinking you can do it all

Your power color: Bronze

Your power symbol: Half Moon

Your power month: August


Your Birthdate: December 23
You're not good at any one thing, and that's the problem.
You're good at so much - you never know what to do.
Change is in your blood, and you don't stick to much for long.
You are destined for a life of travel and fun.

Your strength: Your likeability

Your weakness: You never feel satisfied

Your power color: Bright yellow

Your power symbol: Asterisk

Your power month: May



Monday, September 29, 2008

有趣的博客 Nice Blog

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近來讀了很多大馬的博客感到好榮幸﹣大馬人的文化水平高極了(嘻!不害羞),而對生活的體驗也有非常深刻的體會。
本港的博客大多數都談時事,很少(幾乎不會有?)有人願意剝開來讓人審視自己的情感世界。(所以笨珍永遠是異類)
目前我個人最捧常喜看的是大馬和台灣的博客﹣內容豐富有趣極了﹣最重要﹣有人性嘛。:)
請跟我來看看珍珍推荐的一些有感情的博客吧。當然有趣的博客多不盡碌﹣沒列入的朋友請別介意。

從男性角度高調談論兩性關系之於,體會得真和愛的有道理﹣ KennySia.com是其一 ﹣這是他其中的一個文件夾﹣Understanding Women.
除了(討厭 :P ) License To Touch 表現出一般男人的‘不敢’之外﹣“怎麼他們總不懂我們想要他們?”
我抽樣式地看了其它都很好﹣非常喜歡其中一篇:How Do Couples Keep The 'spark' alive In their Relationship。他拍很多好看的照片圖文並茂很有趣﹣從他的眼睛看他的世界。
 
單親媽媽 MOLLY 許多許多的我們都不曉得自己潛在的力量﹣由其是女性﹣母愛或愛情的力量﹣她讓我再次看見人是有著無限的力量的!

VERA 異常感性+理性又在生活中非常出色的一位大馬女性 ﹣非常喜歡她的博客名﹣Shut That Door... 人生總有那麼多無奈和安奈不住?!

MTSEN 很慷慨地免費(是真的真的免費!) 分享了他的理財之道和願意幫助我們邁向沒金錢煩惱的一天﹣如果不是為了錢﹣你還會工作麼?
如果你能偋除一般的抗拒(怕被人騙)而深入地去看他的博客的話﹣這是個挺有趣和informative的博客。
如果真有興趣﹣給自己一個機會﹣想辦法聯絡他吧﹣問他。問他在“賣”什麼。
小說形式﹣快來跟我一起去看看他胡蘆裡賣得的什麼藥。
以他的文筆如果有一天出書也不奇怪,我們有幸先睹為快了。為什麼此類財經博客會被我列入有感情的博客之一呢?除了網友之間的友情連結之外,他分享的心意就像我跟大家分享玫琳凱MaryKay的心意是一樣的﹣愛的心意,如果你懂我感激我為作過的請給點空間去看看吧﹣不明白的地方可以讓我知道。

*忘了提一提: 他是我們沙巴當年的才子之一 :)

NicoleKiss 非常可愛的一位女生﹣年青又聰慧。喜愛她﹣懂生活﹣肯定是明日之星!

MamaMin 是名人Patrick Teo的太太。她做的cake/cupcake非常有創意!最崇拜她的是對家的熱愛。。。Happiness is Homemade - 她說。

最後當然就是這本正在「瘋狂衛視」審察中準備替我合輯出版的 [Life Is Out Of Track]
雖然還沒一個主題,又不是日記,又不是心情扎記,rojak一樣的博客,但從大家捧場的程
度看來我是停止不了各為看官的愛慕了:)
作者很快就會到大馬舉行一個巡迴讀者會會面讀者要簽名的讀者記的早點邀約 -
喀喀喀喀....

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Half Full 好有趣的博客 ﹣non-malaysian's blog - 博客名提醒我要keep positive!

Make Cool Music - Carl Wong 愛創作音樂的朋友

Sunday, September 28, 2008

了解自己 Find yourself... in your hole

你真的 希 望 了解自己嗎?
你真的 願 意 了解自己嗎?

想清楚﹣那個
黑暗的、深藏的﹣﹣你真想把他出來嗎?


懂我的你都知道我一直都提倡〔找自己〕、也不懈地埋堆於許多的心裡測試裡。你更是記得我沒停止過告訴你我一直找不到自己。。。

九形人格(Enneagram) 出現於公元九世紀,是一種探索人心理工具。
九樣人格中其中七種與天主教的七宗罪(Seven Deadly Sins) 相同 
﹣有看過 Brad Pitt & Morgan Freeman 主演的名戲 <SEVEN> 就知道了。
九形人格是一個幫助人們找出心裡潛在的激情。
﹣﹣主要內容摘自Helen Palmer一書。

我一面做一面冒汗,每一題都貼心地把內心想隱藏的一一挖出來。
我完成了書中的測試後,
我是9號人格﹣Mediator調停者(和平) - 跟隨/懶惰/愛/正確行動/尋求聯合/愛好/聯合。
我覺得對極了,因為我一直都向命運/家人妥協﹣妥協是乎是我此生唯一能做的事。
於是近年來我更是慢慢地進入嚴重不滿的狀況。
因為9號的我永遠拿不定主意/討厭看見戰爭,努力生活愛遍了所有人為了希望看見大家快樂。
記得我在根城小婚禮麼﹣似個小同學聚會,我遙遠的坐在主人席看見你們快樂坐在一塊兒、和我們惟一的一次大團照﹣都為我人生添上美麗的色彩﹣而我知道我是由始至終的觀眾﹣由策划﹣安派﹣享受﹣緬懷。

第二天我上網做了上列網址後我卻再也不是個9號了。

第一次,我是個4號 Tragic Romantic ﹣悲情浪慢者。痛苦和創造(自我)。
我不願意相信那是自己因為我不敢承認自己的自卑帶來的巨大妒嫉感。
於是我休息了一夜後好好把同樣的測試重做一遍,

第二次,出來的答案讓我好佩服,我細心地審視自己的感情處事方式後,得到的答案都是大同小異。不過我把我原本的第二人格﹣8號Boss﹣ 保護者提升成為了第一人格。其它的都維持不變!這讓我覺得好奇妙。而我以為自己是的9號人格從本來的5﹪調高到12﹪,可是卻仍然不是我的主要人格。

我深入地把書裡的性格都細看了一遍知道了自己的答案都是對的。我是8號。
豪情/黑白分明/愛我或離開我/沒有灰色地帶/今朝有酒今朝醉。
8﹣Leader ﹣別讓字面騙了你,我不是有“才能”而成為了一為領導。
相反,我只是不斷地在處事方式想成為領導的一方罷了。
占有、愛操控都是潛在的個性。

難過。迷網。因為一直高喊愛的口號的我原來心底深處尋求的不是愛。
占有攻擊只是希望擁有的一種手段,到頭來還是不要愛。好奇怪,和無奈。

寫到這裡心裡像打翻了五味瓶似的,而讓我的4號就出來了﹣4號總是痴戀上一不存在的人=無知地不接受事實
﹣我深深感到傷痛和難過不願意知道自己卻又是和8號矛盾的,因為〔真相〕是8號的特質。

我把這些心裡感受寫出來,不曉得有多少位你會看到這裡,我可能還想繼續偽裝下去。
我希望跟你分享我接觸到九形人格的心路歷程﹣﹣>
從開始時,已為自己是9號﹣如此膚淺地看著自己的一些表面的行事方式就斷定那就是自己的人格;然後在2次深入地探索無人地帶後,發現了自己的潛在激情個性﹣4或8。

無論如何,書中提到重要的一點是用‘手指著月亮,並不代表你擁有了月亮’。
比喻我們回答問題的同時很多時後給的答案都自己以為會作出的決定或希望是的決定而事實中未必是會作出這樣的決定。
它強調這一切自己作的只可供觀察,還真需要專業人士來審察才能作實。

書中要記得第二點就是:這是一個讓我們了解自己和身邊的人的溝通工具,並不代表我們此生就永遠鎖定如此了。我們可以改進的!
可探討的事情太多了,不過怕悶壞了你們。。。有機會再分享吧。

**另外一樣出人意表的答案:祖是1號﹣完美主義。
這讓我頓時有種像戲裡面的感覺﹣驚訝?恐怖?﹣我從不察覺自己的枕邊人是如此要求完美。
我可提供的解釋就是我一直知道他處於巨大的壓力下生活,外來的,自來的,從小到大。
而我連親密地並存了33年的自己都攪不懂,我又何有能力了解他呢?




Are you ready to get inside your hole? A hole that you have been hiding yourself from the world and yourself...
I mean, are you really really really ready to find out who you are? Without regrets?
I will give you 24 hours to think of this, thoroughly...
If your answer is still YES, try this:

Find myself in Enneagram
http://www.enneagraminstitute.com/intro.asp


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我。。。
MY RESULT on Sep 28, 2008

I'm the 4th here in this chinese online test, but I'm the 9th in the book on my hand which i spent much time and effort to do... i wonder what is right or wrong in this world.... "9th" is the least that i could get in this online tests which only consist of 5% of me... strange... but i like to be the 9th as i think I'm the 9th....

How about you?

九型人格分析
第四型藝術型、浪漫者、自我型、憑感覺者
15%
第八型領袖型、能力型、挑戰者、保護者、權威型
14%
第三型成就者、事業型、成就型、實踐型
13%
第六型忠誠型、忠誠型、尋找安全者、謹慎型
12%
第二型助人者、全愛型、助人型、成就他人者、博愛型
11%
第一型完美主義者、完美型、改革者、改進型、秩序大使
11%
第五型智慧型、觀察者、思想型、理性分析者、思考型
11%
第七型快樂主義型、豐富型、活躍型、創造可能者、享樂型
8%
第九型和平型、和平者、和諧型、維持和諧者
5%


[4th The Romantic] - 15%
你擁有藝術家的性格,多愁善感且想像力豐富,會常沉醉於自己的想像世界裡。另一方面,由於你是感情主導的人,有些工作你不喜歡就可能會放棄不做,不會考慮責任的問題。

主要特徵:
覺得有些東西在生活中遺失了,而別人又恰好擁有自己遺失的東西。
被遙不可及的事物深深吸引。把一個不存在的戀人理想化。
依靠情緒、禮貌、華麗的外表和高雅的品位等外在表現來支撐自己的自尊。
帶有憂鬱感。追求的目標是深入的感情而不是純粹的快樂。
不願意接受"普通情感的平淡"。需要通過缺失、想像和戲劇性的行動來重新加固個人的情感。
追尋真實。感覺現實不是真的,相信當個人被真愛包圍時,真正的自我將出現。
被生活中真實和激烈的事務所深深吸引,比如生死、性愛、災難、遺棄等等。
敏感於他人的情感和痛苦。能夠幫助那些困境中的人。

在很多情況,你都是和平使者,善解人意,隨和。你很容易了解別人,卻不是太清楚自己想要什麼,會顯得優柔寡斷。相對地說,你的主見會比較少,寧願配合其他人的安排,做一個很好的支持者,所以你是心較被動的。

[9th-The Peacemaker] - 5%
主要特徵:
用不必要的事物來取代真實的需要。最重要的事情往往被留在了一天的最後時刻。
難以做出決定。「我是同意,還是不同意」或「我是想去,還是不想去?」
根據習慣行動,重複熟悉的解決方法。儀式主義。
很難說"不"。
壓抑身體的能量和怒火。
用被動進攻和頑固堅持來表現控制力。
關注他人的立場。
難以保持個人的立場,但是卻能擁有感知他人內心體驗的能力。
代表人物:林肯、華德‧迪士尼


***

我。。。
my 2ND attempt on Sep 28, 2008


九型人格分析
第八型領袖型、能力型、挑戰者、保護者、權威型
16%
第四型藝術型、浪漫者、自我型、憑感覺者
14%
第三型成就者、事業型、成就型、實踐型
13%
第六型忠誠型、忠誠型、尋找安全者、謹慎型
12%
第二型助人者、全愛型、助人型、成就他人者、博愛型
12%
第九型和平型、和平者、和諧型、維持和諧者
12%
第一型完美主義者、完美型、改革者、改進型、秩序大使
8%
第七型快樂主義型、豐富型、活躍型、創造可能者、享樂型
8%
第五型智慧型、觀察者、思想型、理性分析者、思考型
4%


[8th - Boss]

你擁有很多當領袖的特質:豪爽、不拘小節、自視甚高、遇強越強、關心、正義、公平。你清楚自己的目標,並努力前進。由於不願被人控制,且具有一定的支配力,所以你很有潛質做領袖帶領大家。由於你好勝性格,有時侯會對人有點攻擊性,讓人感到壓力。

主要特徵:
控制個人的佔有物和空間,控制那些可能影響自己生活的人。
具有進攻性,公開表達自己的憤怒。 。
關注正義,喜歡保護他人。
把打架和性愛當作與他人接觸的方式。相信那些在正面衝突中不退縮的人。
把過度看作克服厭倦的良藥。夜生活、瘋狂娛樂、徹夜狂歡、暴飲暴食……
難以意識到自我的依賴性。當別人愛上他們時,他們會通過各種方式拒絕真實情感,比如離開、認為無聊或者暗自譴責自己對他人的誤導。
常常把所有事物極端化。
缺乏對自身弱點的認識。
代表人物:當奴‧杜林普

***

--> 他。。。

九型人格分析
第一型完美主義者、完美型、改革者、改進型、秩序大使
13%
第五型智慧型、觀察者、思想型、理性分析者、思考型
13%
第八型領袖型、能力型、挑戰者、保護者、權威型
13%
第六型忠誠型、忠誠型、尋找安全者、謹慎型
11%
第七型快樂主義型、豐富型、活躍型、創造可能者、享樂型
11%
第三型成就者、事業型、成就型、實踐型
11%
第四型藝術型、浪漫者、自我型、憑感覺者
10%
第九型和平型、和平者、和諧型、維持和諧者
10%
第二型助人者、全愛型、助人型、成就他人者、博愛型
7%

你是典型的完美主義者。你事事追求完美,很少講出稱讚的說話,很多時會對自己或是對身邊的人批評。因為你對自己的有很高的標準,給自己很大壓力,很少放鬆自己去盡情的玩、開心的笑。

[1st-Perfectionist]
主要特徵:
內心的正確標準變成嚴格的自我要求,不斷產生自責的思想。。
只接受和做正确的事情。
在自身的高層道德和倫理觀念上擁有堅定的信念。要求自己做芸芸眾生中少數的能做正確事情的人。
對於那些不符合正確標準的需要置之不理。
在思想上把自己同他人比較:「我比他們強還是差?」同時很在意他人的批評
做決定時猶豫不決,害怕做出錯誤的決定。
在家裡,會事事操心;出到外面,會盡情玩樂。
有時會變成事後諸葛,在事情發生後,意識到潛在的完美可能,「想想看原本應該是多麼完美。」而感到失落。
代表人物:柏拉圖、甘地、戈爾
你是一個很冷靜的人,總想跟身邊的人和事保持一段距離,也不會讓情緒失控。很多時,你都會先做旁觀者,之後才投入參與。另外,你也需要充分的私人空間和高度的私隱,否則你會覺得焦慮不安。你很有機會成為專家,例如電腦、漫畫、時裝,因為你對知識是非常熱愛的。

[5th-Observer]
主要特徵:
保持不被涉及的狀態;感到威脅時,第一道防線是撤退或者繫緊安全帶。
害怕用心去感覺。
過度強調自我控制。把注意力從感覺上挪開。「戲劇是給那些普通人看的。」
情感延遲。在他人面前控制感覺,等到自己一個人的時候,才表露情感。
把生活劃分成不同的區域。把不同的事情放在不同的盒子裡,給每個盒子一個時間限制。
希望能夠預測到將要發生的事情。
對那些解釋人類行為的特殊知識和分析系統感興趣。希望找到一張解釋情感的地圖。
分不清精神上的不依賴和拒絕痛苦的感情封閉,是沒有悟道的佛。
喜歡從一個旁觀者的角度來關注自己和自己的生活,讓自己的觀點不受情感偏見的影響。
代表人物:愛因斯坦

Saturday, September 27, 2008

See anything you like?















We got these (and more) as free gift (upon request) when we visited the Dell showroom last week.
Best to carry Fingers with you all the time so that can 'steal' anything u like :))






Friday, September 05, 2008

I love you

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(本篇文章來自於網路轉載)
What I find important in a relationship :
 
Love is like a butterfly. 
The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. 
But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. 
Love can make you happy but often it hurts, 
but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. 
So take your time and choose the best. 

Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' 
It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be. 

Never say 'I love you' if you don't care. 
Never talk about feelings if they aren't there. 
Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. 
Never look in the eye when all you do is lie. 
The cruelest thing a guy can do to a guy is to let him fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch him fall and it works both ways... 

Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.' 
Not 'where are you',but 'I'm right here.' 
Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.' 
Not 'I wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.'

The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other. 

Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. 
The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them. 

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How to be in love: 
Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, 
share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand,
and get hurt but never keep the pain. 

It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

Love hurts when you break up with someone. 
It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. 
But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel. 
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, 
only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. 
If he isn't worth it now he's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. 
Let go.....I have! 

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My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, 
mature,never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish. 

I'm so tired of being here
Suppressed by all my childish fears
And if you have to leave
I wish that you would just leave
'Cause your presence still lingers here
And it won't leave me alone

These wounds won't seem to heal
This pain is just too real
There's just too much that time cannot erase

When you cried I'd wipe away all of your tears
When you'd scream I'd fight away all of your fears
I held your hand through all of these years
But you still have all of me

You used to captivate me
By your resonating light
Now I'm bound by the life you left behind
Your face it haunts
My once pleasant dreams
Your voice it chased away
All the sanity in me

I've tried so hard to tell myself that you're gone
But though your still with me
I've been alone all along

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What turns me on :
 
Find a guy, who calls you beautiful instead of hot.
Who calls you back when you hang up on him.
Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead.
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.
Who holds your hand in front of his friends.
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.
Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "...that's her."


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