Monday, December 29, 2008

The Second Jane's "My-Trip"


Malaysia Holidays 2009

I've decided to make Mo's 2009 summer break meaningful, by taking him home to Sandakan to spend time with his mother's family and spend time with everyone, for 1.5 months! ... which is also my little break I plan for myself to stay away from the hectic lifestyle here.. :P Apparently I get addicted to stay away from here and Im going to plan more in future and fly off from HK more often...


Tuesday, December 09, 2008

HOLIDAY MOOD is on!!!!

This is where you can find me in between 14th-21st Dec :)
Yeah!!!
HOLIDAY MOOD is on!!!!
My contact numbers will be provided in 4 days time.....


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Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Can You Become a Creature of New Habits?

Published: May 4, 2008

HABITS are a funny thing. We reach for them mindlessly, setting our brains on auto-pilot and relaxing into the unconscious comfort of familiar routine. “Not choice, but habit rules the unreflecting herd,” William Wordsworth said in the 19th century. In the ever-changing 21st century, even the word “habit” carries a negative connotation.

So it seems antithetical to talk about habits in the same context as creativity and innovation. But brain researchers have discovered that when we consciously develop new habits, we create parallel synaptic paths, and even entirely new brain cells, that can jump our trains of thought onto new, innovative tracks.

Rather than dismissing ourselves as unchangeable creatures of habit, we can instead direct our own change by consciously developing new habits. In fact, the more new things we try — the more we step outside our comfort zone — the more inherently creative we become, both in the workplace and in our personal lives.

But don’t bother trying to kill off old habits; once those ruts of procedure are worn into the hippocampus, they’re there to stay. Instead, the new habits we deliberately ingrain into ourselves create parallel pathways that can bypass those old roads.

“The first thing needed for innovation is a fascination with wonder,” says Dawna Markova, author of “The Open Mind” and an executive change consultant for Professional Thinking Partners. “But we are taught instead to ‘decide,’ just as our president calls himself ‘the Decider.’ ” She adds, however, that “to decide is to kill off all possibilities but one. A good innovational thinker is always exploring the many other possibilities.”

All of us work through problems in ways of which we’re unaware, she says. Researchers in the late 1960s discovered that humans are born with the capacity to approach challenges in four primary ways: analytically, procedurally, relationally (or collaboratively) and innovatively. At puberty, however, the brain shuts down half of that capacity, preserving only those modes of thought that have seemed most valuable during the first decade or so of life.

The current emphasis on standardized testing highlights analysis and procedure, meaning that few of us inherently use our innovative and collaborative modes of thought. “This breaks the major rule in the American belief system — that anyone can do anything,” explains M. J. Ryan, author of the 2006 book “This Year I Will...” and Ms. Markova’s business partner. “That’s a lie that we have perpetuated, and it fosters mediocrity. Knowing what you’re good at and doing even more of it creates excellence.”

This is where developing new habits comes in. If you’re an analytical or procedural thinker, you learn in different ways than someone who is inherently innovative or collaborative. Figure out what has worked for you when you’ve learned in the past, and you can draw your own map for developing additional skills and behaviors for the future.

“I apprentice myself to someone when I want to learn something new or develop a new habit,” Ms. Ryan says. “Other people read a book about it or take a course. If you have a pathway to learning, use it because that’s going to be easier than creating an entirely new pathway in your brain.”

Ms. Ryan and Ms. Markova have found what they call three zones of existence: comfort, stretch and stress. Comfort is the realm of existing habit. Stress occurs when a challenge is so far beyond current experience as to be overwhelming. It’s that stretch zone in the middle — activities that feel a bit awkward and unfamiliar — where true change occurs.

“Getting into the stretch zone is good for you,” Ms. Ryan says in “This Year I Will... .” “It helps keep your brain healthy. It turns out that unless we continue to learn new things, which challenges our brains to create new pathways, they literally begin to atrophy, which may result in dementiaAlzheimer’s and other brain diseases. Continuously stretching ourselves will even help us lose weight, according to one study. Researchers who asked folks to do something different every day — listen to a new radio station, for instance — found that they lost and kept off weight. No one is sure why, but scientists speculate that getting out of routines makes us more aware in general.”

She recommends practicing a Japanese technique called kaizen, which calls for tiny, continuous improvements.

“Whenever we initiate change, even a positive one, we activate fear in our emotional brain,” Ms. Ryan notes in her book. “If the fear is big enough, the fight-or-flight response will go off and we’ll run from what we’re trying to do. The small steps in kaizen don’t set off fight or flight, but rather keep us in the thinking brain, where we have access to our creativity and playfulness.”

Simultaneously, take a look at how colleagues approach challenges, Ms. Markova suggests. We tend to believe that those who think the way we do are smarter than those who don’t. That can be fatal in business, particularly for executives who surround themselves with like-thinkers. If seniority and promotion are based on similarity to those at the top, chances are strong that the company lacks intellectual diversity.

“Try lacing your hands together,” Ms. Markova says. “You habitually do it one way. Now try doing it with the other thumb on top. Feels awkward, doesn’t it? That’s the valuable moment we call confusion, when we fuse the old with the new.”

AFTER the churn of confusion, she says, the brain begins organizing the new input, ultimately creating new synaptic connections if the process is repeated enough.

But if, during creation of that new habit, the “Great Decider” steps in to protest against taking the unfamiliar path, “you get convergence and we keep doing the same thing over and over again,” she says.

“You cannot have innovation,” she adds, “unless you are willing and able to move through the unknown and go from curiosity to wonder.”

Janet Rae-Dupree writes about science and emerging technology in Silicon Valley.

Tuesday, December 02, 2008

Rosicrucian, Freemanson and Wicca

Rosicrucian 玫瑰十字会

玫瑰十字会是一個根植于西方神秘传统的秘傳教团,以玫瑰和十字作為它的象徵。該會一直保持神秘,不為外人知曉。直至17世紀初,有人以匿名在德國發表三份關於該會的宣言,外人才知道它的存在。这个赫耳墨斯教团被早期的和许多现代的玫瑰十字会主義者视為一所来自内部位面的“看不见者的学院”,由伟大的法师们组成,目的是协助人类的靈性發展。玫瑰十字会的问候语是“愿玫瑰在你的十字上绽放”。

有一些现代团体自稱是玫瑰十字会的傳承者,不過很多玫瑰十字会历史研究者认为这些现代的玫瑰十字会员并非直接传承自17世纪的玫瑰十字会,他们只不过是热心的追随者。有人认为17世纪的玫瑰十字会根本不曾存在過,它只是一个文字骗局或恶作剧,也有人认为當時的玫瑰十字会是後來一些真實存在的社团的起源。


近代的共濟會(Freemasons)成立於18世紀英國,是18世紀歐洲的一種帶有烏托邦性質及宗教色彩的兄弟會性質組織,作為世界上最龐大的地下組織,總部設於倫敦市中心高芬園,宣揚博愛的思想,以及美德精神,追尋人類生存意義,號召建立和平理想的國家世界上眾多著名人士都是共濟會成員。全世界會員約有5百萬人,英格蘭蘇格蘭愛爾蘭會籍上約有48萬名會員,美國境內也有約2百萬名會員。
美生會並非宗教,但美生兄弟們是有信仰的。美生會並不取代宗教,而是彌補其不足。人們藉由宗教的方式得到解脫,美生會並不如此宣稱。美生會接納所有宗教的信仰,並且是將不同宗教、政治立場和社會背景的人融於一堂。 假如不相信冥冥中有其主宰,他將無法在美生的精神上得到認同;而不相信有神的存在,自然也將被排拒於美生會的門外。


(Pantheism=Materialism+Atheism  泛神論乃是唯物主義無神論)

是一種在英國美國盛行的、新興的、多神論的、以巫術為基礎的宗教。威卡這個詞來於Witchcraft(巫術)的縮寫。

威卡教的信徒也自稱自己的宗教為「老宗教」(這個稱呼可以追溯到弗里德里希·施萊格爾)或者「老路」來表示威卡教的根源在於歐洲魔術原始宗教。也有些人將威卡教的儀式與薩滿教的儀式等同起來,將威卡教看作是薩滿教的一種。

1994年開始美國承認威卡教為一種宗教並允許進行靈氣治療。


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