Monday, December 29, 2008

The Second Jane's "My-Trip"


Malaysia Holidays 2009

I've decided to make Mo's 2009 summer break meaningful, by taking him home to Sandakan to spend time with his mother's family and spend time with everyone, for 1.5 months! ... which is also my little break I plan for myself to stay away from the hectic lifestyle here.. :P Apparently I get addicted to stay away from here and Im going to plan more in future and fly off from HK more often...


Tuesday, December 09, 2008

HOLIDAY MOOD is on!!!!

This is where you can find me in between 14th-21st Dec :)
Yeah!!!
HOLIDAY MOOD is on!!!!
My contact numbers will be provided in 4 days time.....


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Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Can You Become a Creature of New Habits?

Published: May 4, 2008

HABITS are a funny thing. We reach for them mindlessly, setting our brains on auto-pilot and relaxing into the unconscious comfort of familiar routine. “Not choice, but habit rules the unreflecting herd,” William Wordsworth said in the 19th century. In the ever-changing 21st century, even the word “habit” carries a negative connotation.

So it seems antithetical to talk about habits in the same context as creativity and innovation. But brain researchers have discovered that when we consciously develop new habits, we create parallel synaptic paths, and even entirely new brain cells, that can jump our trains of thought onto new, innovative tracks.

Rather than dismissing ourselves as unchangeable creatures of habit, we can instead direct our own change by consciously developing new habits. In fact, the more new things we try — the more we step outside our comfort zone — the more inherently creative we become, both in the workplace and in our personal lives.

But don’t bother trying to kill off old habits; once those ruts of procedure are worn into the hippocampus, they’re there to stay. Instead, the new habits we deliberately ingrain into ourselves create parallel pathways that can bypass those old roads.

“The first thing needed for innovation is a fascination with wonder,” says Dawna Markova, author of “The Open Mind” and an executive change consultant for Professional Thinking Partners. “But we are taught instead to ‘decide,’ just as our president calls himself ‘the Decider.’ ” She adds, however, that “to decide is to kill off all possibilities but one. A good innovational thinker is always exploring the many other possibilities.”

All of us work through problems in ways of which we’re unaware, she says. Researchers in the late 1960s discovered that humans are born with the capacity to approach challenges in four primary ways: analytically, procedurally, relationally (or collaboratively) and innovatively. At puberty, however, the brain shuts down half of that capacity, preserving only those modes of thought that have seemed most valuable during the first decade or so of life.

The current emphasis on standardized testing highlights analysis and procedure, meaning that few of us inherently use our innovative and collaborative modes of thought. “This breaks the major rule in the American belief system — that anyone can do anything,” explains M. J. Ryan, author of the 2006 book “This Year I Will...” and Ms. Markova’s business partner. “That’s a lie that we have perpetuated, and it fosters mediocrity. Knowing what you’re good at and doing even more of it creates excellence.”

This is where developing new habits comes in. If you’re an analytical or procedural thinker, you learn in different ways than someone who is inherently innovative or collaborative. Figure out what has worked for you when you’ve learned in the past, and you can draw your own map for developing additional skills and behaviors for the future.

“I apprentice myself to someone when I want to learn something new or develop a new habit,” Ms. Ryan says. “Other people read a book about it or take a course. If you have a pathway to learning, use it because that’s going to be easier than creating an entirely new pathway in your brain.”

Ms. Ryan and Ms. Markova have found what they call three zones of existence: comfort, stretch and stress. Comfort is the realm of existing habit. Stress occurs when a challenge is so far beyond current experience as to be overwhelming. It’s that stretch zone in the middle — activities that feel a bit awkward and unfamiliar — where true change occurs.

“Getting into the stretch zone is good for you,” Ms. Ryan says in “This Year I Will... .” “It helps keep your brain healthy. It turns out that unless we continue to learn new things, which challenges our brains to create new pathways, they literally begin to atrophy, which may result in dementiaAlzheimer’s and other brain diseases. Continuously stretching ourselves will even help us lose weight, according to one study. Researchers who asked folks to do something different every day — listen to a new radio station, for instance — found that they lost and kept off weight. No one is sure why, but scientists speculate that getting out of routines makes us more aware in general.”

She recommends practicing a Japanese technique called kaizen, which calls for tiny, continuous improvements.

“Whenever we initiate change, even a positive one, we activate fear in our emotional brain,” Ms. Ryan notes in her book. “If the fear is big enough, the fight-or-flight response will go off and we’ll run from what we’re trying to do. The small steps in kaizen don’t set off fight or flight, but rather keep us in the thinking brain, where we have access to our creativity and playfulness.”

Simultaneously, take a look at how colleagues approach challenges, Ms. Markova suggests. We tend to believe that those who think the way we do are smarter than those who don’t. That can be fatal in business, particularly for executives who surround themselves with like-thinkers. If seniority and promotion are based on similarity to those at the top, chances are strong that the company lacks intellectual diversity.

“Try lacing your hands together,” Ms. Markova says. “You habitually do it one way. Now try doing it with the other thumb on top. Feels awkward, doesn’t it? That’s the valuable moment we call confusion, when we fuse the old with the new.”

AFTER the churn of confusion, she says, the brain begins organizing the new input, ultimately creating new synaptic connections if the process is repeated enough.

But if, during creation of that new habit, the “Great Decider” steps in to protest against taking the unfamiliar path, “you get convergence and we keep doing the same thing over and over again,” she says.

“You cannot have innovation,” she adds, “unless you are willing and able to move through the unknown and go from curiosity to wonder.”

Janet Rae-Dupree writes about science and emerging technology in Silicon Valley.

Tuesday, December 02, 2008

Rosicrucian, Freemanson and Wicca

Rosicrucian 玫瑰十字会

玫瑰十字会是一個根植于西方神秘传统的秘傳教团,以玫瑰和十字作為它的象徵。該會一直保持神秘,不為外人知曉。直至17世紀初,有人以匿名在德國發表三份關於該會的宣言,外人才知道它的存在。这个赫耳墨斯教团被早期的和许多现代的玫瑰十字会主義者视為一所来自内部位面的“看不见者的学院”,由伟大的法师们组成,目的是协助人类的靈性發展。玫瑰十字会的问候语是“愿玫瑰在你的十字上绽放”。

有一些现代团体自稱是玫瑰十字会的傳承者,不過很多玫瑰十字会历史研究者认为这些现代的玫瑰十字会员并非直接传承自17世纪的玫瑰十字会,他们只不过是热心的追随者。有人认为17世纪的玫瑰十字会根本不曾存在過,它只是一个文字骗局或恶作剧,也有人认为當時的玫瑰十字会是後來一些真實存在的社团的起源。


近代的共濟會(Freemasons)成立於18世紀英國,是18世紀歐洲的一種帶有烏托邦性質及宗教色彩的兄弟會性質組織,作為世界上最龐大的地下組織,總部設於倫敦市中心高芬園,宣揚博愛的思想,以及美德精神,追尋人類生存意義,號召建立和平理想的國家世界上眾多著名人士都是共濟會成員。全世界會員約有5百萬人,英格蘭蘇格蘭愛爾蘭會籍上約有48萬名會員,美國境內也有約2百萬名會員。
美生會並非宗教,但美生兄弟們是有信仰的。美生會並不取代宗教,而是彌補其不足。人們藉由宗教的方式得到解脫,美生會並不如此宣稱。美生會接納所有宗教的信仰,並且是將不同宗教、政治立場和社會背景的人融於一堂。 假如不相信冥冥中有其主宰,他將無法在美生的精神上得到認同;而不相信有神的存在,自然也將被排拒於美生會的門外。


(Pantheism=Materialism+Atheism  泛神論乃是唯物主義無神論)

是一種在英國美國盛行的、新興的、多神論的、以巫術為基礎的宗教。威卡這個詞來於Witchcraft(巫術)的縮寫。

威卡教的信徒也自稱自己的宗教為「老宗教」(這個稱呼可以追溯到弗里德里希·施萊格爾)或者「老路」來表示威卡教的根源在於歐洲魔術原始宗教。也有些人將威卡教的儀式與薩滿教的儀式等同起來,將威卡教看作是薩滿教的一種。

1994年開始美國承認威卡教為一種宗教並允許進行靈氣治療。


Sunday, November 23, 2008

Friendship

Life is short

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They say, it takes a minute to find a special person,
an hour to appreciate them,
a day to love them,
but then an entire life to forget them.

When you are lonely, I wish you love.

When you are down, I wish you joy.

When you are troubled, I wish you peace.

When things are complicated, I wish you simple beauty.

When things are chaotic, I wish you inner silence.

When things look empty, I wish you hope.






Wednesday, November 19, 2008

人生

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人生


0歲出場,
10歲快樂成長;
20為情徬徨;
30基本定向;
40拼命打闖;
50回頭望望;
60告老還鄉;
70搓搓麻將;
80曬曬太陽;
90躺在床上;
100掛在牆.
生的偉大,死得淒涼! 

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能牽手的時候,請別只是肩並肩,

能擁抱的時候,請別只是手牽手,

能在一起的時候,請別輕易分開! 

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當大部分人都在關注你飛得高不高時,
只有少部分人關心你飛得累不累

---------這就是友情,再忙也要照顧好自己,朋友雖不常聯繫卻一直惦念!


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一切以健康為中心。 

兩個基本點: 
遇事瀟灑一點,看事糊塗一點。 

三個忘記: 忘記年齡,忘記過去,忘記恩怨。

四個擁有: 無論你有多弱或多強,一定要擁有真正愛你的人,

擁有知心朋友,擁有向上的事業,擁有溫暖的住所。

五個要: 要唱,要跳,要俏,要笑,要苗條。

六個不能: 不能餓了才吃,不能渴了才喝,不能困了才睡,

不能累了才歇,不能病了才檢查,不能老了再後悔!



Tuesday, November 18, 2008

What career will suit your personality?

What career will suit your personality?
This description is a generalisation. If it rings true, you've found your career type. If it doesn't, return to the quiz, decide whether you answered truthfully, and not by what you think you should answer. Redo your answers and read your new results.

You would be very happy in a career that utilised your level-headedness, and allowed you to work mainly on your own. You want a career that allows you to stimulate your senses and your mind, without having to be involved with lots of people. Some careers that would be perfect for you are: 
  • Novelist
  • Photographer
  • Vet
  • Medical Technician
  • Paralegal
  • Geologist
  • Marine Biologist
  • Graphic Designer
  • Online Content Developer
  • Webmaster
  • Computer Security
  • Producer
  • Computer Programmer
  • Technical Writer
  • Systems Analyst
  • Meteorologist
  • Artist
You like working and being alone. You like to avoid attention at all costs. You tend to keep to yourself, and not interact much with the people around you. You enjoy spending time with a few a close friends. You like to listen to others, but don't like sharing much about yourself. You are very quiet and private.

You are very practical, and only act after thinking things through. You don't like being forced to answer quickly. You have to evaluate the situation completely. You make decisions based on what you can verify with your senses.

You like to be involved deeply in one or two special projects. You like to be behind the scenes. You are very logical and fair. You feel you should be honest with others at all costs. 

You trust what is certain. You only like new ideas if they can be practically applied to the situation. You value what is real. You use your common sense. You like to utilise the skills you have instead of learning new ones. You are very specific and detailed when writing or talking to others. You follow directions well. You like things to be laid out for you to do instead of working them out for yourself. You like decisions to be made. You don't like things to be left in limbo. You like to know what you are getting into before you commit to something. 

You like to focus on the here and now. You enjoy completing projects. It is important for you to achieve and succeed. Therefore, you believe in working hard and playing later. You like to set goals and work towards them.

  • Discover your email personality

  • Chat on the Life in the Workplace message board

  • Test your emotional intelligence

  • Saturday, November 15, 2008

    Party Fortnightly「兩週一聚」

    前言: 這是一個叫「兩週一聚」的活動。是網友MICHELLE筆路發起。
    每月十五日﹑三十日﹐一班住在世界不同角落的博客都會一起寫同一個題目。
    今天是第二次相聚。主題定為「愛」。是廣泛的愛。
    參加者只能用上七百個中文字(包標點符號)﹐來寫一個關於「愛」的短篇故事。

    2008 October 30『兩週一聚』: 『我有一部時光機』

    Colour

    The Ultimate Color Test
    When you are at peace, you are:

    Thoughtful and sensitive

    When you are moved to act, you are:

    Confident and optimistic

    When you are inspired, you are:

    Spontaneous and adventurous

    When your life is perfectly balanced, you are:

    Light hearted and funny

    Your life's purpose is:

    To change the world

    Dear Joy, Welcome to the family! November 15, 2008

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    Dear Joy and Ric

    Today you are joined in marriage,
    remember to always…
    Be understanding of your partner’s needs.
    Hold each other in the highest regard.
    Have a sense of humour as you meet life’s challenges.
    Honour one another when you are together or apart.
    Respect each other’s differences.
    Enjoy the good times, and endure the storms.
    Make your dreams come true, together…
    Most of all, love one another…

    Love and regards from everyone at home.

    弟弟越洋傳來了個喜訊。我衷心地祝福他們。
    我不相信婚姻但我一定贊成婚姻。
    這是人生。
    已婚的你,來和我一同檢視自己的婚姻吧。

    了解他的需要
    滿滿的關愛
    榮譽對方
    尊重分歧點
    分享分旦
    一起把夢想成真
    最重要的還是:彼此相愛。

    看到這裡我想
    到底,是誰違被婚約了?


    取?捨?


    **

    為何赤身裸體出現在公開場合,便是觸犯了「善良風俗」?

    **

    為何許多信徒難以想像上帝是黑人婦女?

    **

    為何以中指指著某人是非常糟糕的一件事?

    **

    為何我們不能直截了當地說:第歐根尼不過是一個發瘋流浪漢,耶穌也好不到哪裡去?


    ~《你管柏拉圖怎麼想》第28頁 ~ 




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    珍珍此生總是在追求底線。人生生活工作道德感情無一倖免。
    只有看到了底線以後我才能放心的走下去。
    今天看到此篇有趣的就寫來讓你瞧一瞧、想一想。

    我給祖看了後,便問他:『同意又怎樣不同意又怎樣?你同意麼?』
    他喻意人生價值觀的定位要如何把握。自閉如我倆公婆最討厭生活中繁文俗節。
    團體生活有團體生活戒線。他常就是這樣晞噓長氣,把身邊的女子都迷的團團轉然後卻又不理解人家女孩兒情懷。他在這個他討厭的文化中長大,仍然討厭。學到的是平衡和接受。我看到雙重性格的他在追求完美當中苦得不能自拔。我從無到有至到完美的成就是因為身上流著「變」的血。變色龍一樣都是在不斷的依伏環境而變。沒有停留不加思索一直向前往﹣何處是家?何處是歇息處?

    珍珍卻說,獨醉最痛。良人來和我結伴同行,咱倆不離不棄永相隨吧。
    好的壞的執著的在乎的愛的恨的。。。不是「同行」最重要麼?

    柏拉圖說過人到卅就需要正視哲學。但丁也說過假設人能活到70歲的話,35歲就是時候能看到人生的陰暗面。你開始了嗎?你對自己的過去滿意嗎?你對將來有信心嗎?



    Friday, November 14, 2008

    陳淑樺 - 笑紅塵 & 滾滾紅塵

    笑紅塵

      笑紅塵 - 陳淑樺       曲︰李宗盛      詞︰厲曼婷      編︰鮑比達     
    *紅塵多可笑 癡情最無聊      
    目空一切也好      
    此生未了 心卻已無所擾      
    只想換得半世逍遙     

    #醒時對人笑 夢中全忘掉      
    嘆天黑得太早      
    來生難料 愛恨一筆勾消      
    對酒當歌我只願開心到老     

    +風再冷不想逃      花再美也不想要 
    任我逍遙      
    天越高心越小      不問因果有多少 
    獨自醉倒      

    今天哭明天笑      不求有人能明瞭 
    一身驕傲      

    歌在唱舞在跳      長夜慢慢不覺曉 
    將快樂尋找       
    重唱 *,#,+,+,+

    滾滾紅塵


    滾滾紅塵 - 陳淑樺       曲︰羅大佑      詞︰羅大佑      編︰花比傲       
    起初不經意的妳 
    和少年不經世的我      
    紅塵中的情緣 
    只因那生命匆匆不語的膠著       

    想是人世間的錯 
    或前世流傳的因果      
    終生的所有 
    也不惜換取剎那陰陽的交流       

    來易來 去難去 
    數十載的人世遊      

    分易分 聚難聚 
    愛與恨的千古愁      

    本應屬於妳的心 
    它依然護緊我胸口      
    為只為那塵世轉變的面孔後的翻雲覆雨乎     *來易來 去難去 數十載的人世遊      分易分 聚難聚 愛與恨的千古愁      於是不願走的妳 要告別已不見的我      至今世間仍有隱約的耳語      跟隨我倆的傳說       重唱 *       滾滾紅塵裡有隱約的耳語      跟隨我倆的傳說
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