The Seven-year Period

This typical terms would remind most of us for the movie by this famous flim image, The 7 Year Itch, by M.Monroe.... that we get bored in our marriage and looking for an affair.  NO, I'm not talking about marriage here today.

In western world, there is a paradox about the 7-year circle, that every seven year there are some significant issues happen in our life.  It is said we would have something special in our 7th, 14th, 21st, 28th, 35th, 42th birthdays and so forth.  I find it interesting and try listing out my life here as echo to one of my blogger friends' blog here

Jane@7-year-old

Couldnt remember much about it except I have taken a good photo in this age that I keep till today.

Jane@14-year-old

I was in first formal year of Secondary school and I have made many good friends in this year, which lasted till today.  We share the very same life perspective, art and music. 

And, I moved for the very first time in my life.  There starts my non-stop tragedy of not able to stay in one place for more than 5 years in my life... from 14 till 33 last year.

Jane@21-year-old

I experience the poorest life I had in my life and seen the darkest of one's life.  I was picked up and tried my best to bounce back as much as I could.  Of cos, I did it.

Jane@28-year-old

I had an unpredicted pregnancy, and my child was born the next year.

Two more years to my 5th circle and i will tell you about it in Xmas of 2010 when I would have just passed my 35th birthday.  The best I could predict it has something to do with my marriage.  Of cos, I do wish life is full of surprises :)

Now, please share me about yours :)

你有想過嗎？

Q1.  What do you work for? Salary? Killing time? Job satisfaction? Because everyone does, so I should?

你工作是為了什麼呢？薪水？消磨時間？工作的滿足感？因為每個人都這樣，所以我也需要這樣？

Q2.  Seriously, if not for money, would you work?

說真的，如果不是為了錢，

你還會去工作嗎？

Now most of you had told me about your future plan is to wait for retirement.  

Working is to save as much as possible and go traveling around the world, Enjoy life, Reading, etc.  

好了。每個人都告訴我說，今天明天的目的，就是等退休。５５歲。還有一大截呢。現在還是埋頭苦幹去吧！退休後就環遊世界去。看書去。享活去。享兒孫福去。

Q3.  I will pick 'Travel' as example cos this is the highest answers I have gathered.  Imagine you are retired today.  No worries of

money.  

就那最多人選的“環遊世界”來說吧。請幻想你今天已經退休了。無金錢憂慮的日子。

Where would you like to go traveling to?  

你想到哪遊玩去？

What would you do in the trip?  

你在旅遊時會怎樣去享受此旅程？

Who would you take with you?  

If your spouse isnt available, would you mind going alone?  

你希望誰跟你在一起？如果先生／太太不能同行的話，你會一個人去嗎？

Would you be physically fit to enjoy the journey?

你的身體狀況能耐的住嗎？

Would you have the peace of mind to study the places before traveling? 

If you dont do this, why would you go traveling in the first place if you dont appreciate the art and culture of the place?  Just because everyone go there so I should?

年邁的你能有閒情打開書本學習旅行知識嗎？如果不學的話，難道只為了看看外國的月亮是否特別圓嗎？還是只是因為每個人都去過了所以我也要去？

我知道你看到這裡就想要揍我了。你一定想說我天天在家太空閒想太多了，還寫出來給你制造麻煩。我只是看不過眼每個人都把今天該作的事通通推到明天去。沒珍惜時間`身體`人。我不介意你想揍我，只是我已經看不到我的人生意義何在了。

Q4.  Imagine you have accomplished EVERYTHING now.  Would you mind to leave this world now?  Would you leave with a smile? Welcome this day to come as joyous as you

 welcome other happiness in life?

如果你已經把此生一直想要完成的事多做完了。那，你是否就願意面對死亡呢？能開心的面對嗎？

Q5.  What if you have accomplished all of these when you are only 33 years old? :)  

"Now, whats next? Daddy."

如果以上４題都回答了，請寫電郵給我。

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普及國學是我們的職務。

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Appreciate Guoxue as it is

取？捨？

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為何赤身裸體出現在公開場合，便是觸犯了「善良風俗」？

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為何許多信徒難以想像上帝是黑人婦女？

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為何以中指指著某人是非常糟糕的一件事？

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為何我們不能直截了當地說：第歐根尼不過是一個發瘋流浪漢，耶穌也好不到哪裡去？

～《你管柏拉圖怎麼想》第28頁 ～ 

珍珍此生總是在追求底線。人生生活工作道德感情無一倖免。

只有看到了底線以後我才能放心的走下去。

今天看到此篇有趣的就寫來讓你瞧一瞧、想一想。

我給祖看了後，便問他：『同意又怎樣不同意又怎樣？你同意麼？』

他喻意人生價值觀的定位要如何把握。自閉如我倆公婆最討厭生活中繁文俗節。

團體生活有團體生活戒線。他常就是這樣晞噓長氣，把身邊的女子都迷的團團轉然後卻又不理解人家女孩兒情懷。他在這個他討厭的文化中長大，仍然討厭。學到的是平衡和接受。我看到雙重性格的他在追求完美當中苦得不能自拔。我從無到有至到完美的成就是因為身上流著「變」的血。變色龍一樣都是在不斷的依伏環境而變。沒有停留不加思索一直向前往﹣何處是家？何處是歇息處？

珍珍卻說，獨醉最痛。良人來和我結伴同行，咱倆不離不棄永相隨吧。

好的壞的執著的在乎的愛的恨的。。。不是「同行」最重要麼？

柏拉圖說過人到卅就需要正視哲學。但丁也說過假設人能活到70歲的話，35歲就是時候能看到人生的陰暗面。你開始了嗎？你對自己的過去滿意嗎？你對將來有信心嗎？