Monday, December 29, 2008
The Second Jane's "My-Trip"
Tuesday, December 09, 2008
HOLIDAY MOOD is on!!!!
Wednesday, December 03, 2008
Can You Become a Creature of New Habits?
HABITS are a funny thing. We reach for them mindlessly, setting our brains on auto-pilot and relaxing into the unconscious comfort of familiar routine. “Not choice, but habit rules the unreflecting herd,” William Wordsworth said in the 19th century. In the ever-changing 21st century, even the word “habit” carries a negative connotation.
So it seems antithetical to talk about habits in the same context as creativity and innovation. But brain researchers have discovered that when we consciously develop new habits, we create parallel synaptic paths, and even entirely new brain cells, that can jump our trains of thought onto new, innovative tracks.
Rather than dismissing ourselves as unchangeable creatures of habit, we can instead direct our own change by consciously developing new habits. In fact, the more new things we try — the more we step outside our comfort zone — the more inherently creative we become, both in the workplace and in our personal lives.
But don’t bother trying to kill off old habits; once those ruts of procedure are worn into the hippocampus, they’re there to stay. Instead, the new habits we deliberately ingrain into ourselves create parallel pathways that can bypass those old roads.
“The first thing needed for innovation is a fascination with wonder,” says Dawna Markova, author of “The Open Mind” and an executive change consultant for Professional Thinking Partners. “But we are taught instead to ‘decide,’ just as our president calls himself ‘the Decider.’ ” She adds, however, that “to decide is to kill off all possibilities but one. A good innovational thinker is always exploring the many other possibilities.”
All of us work through problems in ways of which we’re unaware, she says. Researchers in the late 1960s discovered that humans are born with the capacity to approach challenges in four primary ways: analytically, procedurally, relationally (or collaboratively) and innovatively. At puberty, however, the brain shuts down half of that capacity, preserving only those modes of thought that have seemed most valuable during the first decade or so of life.
The current emphasis on standardized testing highlights analysis and procedure, meaning that few of us inherently use our innovative and collaborative modes of thought. “This breaks the major rule in the American belief system — that anyone can do anything,” explains M. J. Ryan, author of the 2006 book “This Year I Will...” and Ms. Markova’s business partner. “That’s a lie that we have perpetuated, and it fosters mediocrity. Knowing what you’re good at and doing even more of it creates excellence.”
This is where developing new habits comes in. If you’re an analytical or procedural thinker, you learn in different ways than someone who is inherently innovative or collaborative. Figure out what has worked for you when you’ve learned in the past, and you can draw your own map for developing additional skills and behaviors for the future.
“I apprentice myself to someone when I want to learn something new or develop a new habit,” Ms. Ryan says. “Other people read a book about it or take a course. If you have a pathway to learning, use it because that’s going to be easier than creating an entirely new pathway in your brain.”
Ms. Ryan and Ms. Markova have found what they call three zones of existence: comfort, stretch and stress. Comfort is the realm of existing habit. Stress occurs when a challenge is so far beyond current experience as to be overwhelming. It’s that stretch zone in the middle — activities that feel a bit awkward and unfamiliar — where true change occurs.
“Getting into the stretch zone is good for you,” Ms. Ryan says in “This Year I Will... .” “It helps keep your brain healthy. It turns out that unless we continue to learn new things, which challenges our brains to create new pathways, they literally begin to atrophy, which may result in dementia, Alzheimer’s and other brain diseases. Continuously stretching ourselves will even help us lose weight, according to one study. Researchers who asked folks to do something different every day — listen to a new radio station, for instance — found that they lost and kept off weight. No one is sure why, but scientists speculate that getting out of routines makes us more aware in general.”
She recommends practicing a Japanese technique called kaizen, which calls for tiny, continuous improvements.
“Whenever we initiate change, even a positive one, we activate fear in our emotional brain,” Ms. Ryan notes in her book. “If the fear is big enough, the fight-or-flight response will go off and we’ll run from what we’re trying to do. The small steps in kaizen don’t set off fight or flight, but rather keep us in the thinking brain, where we have access to our creativity and playfulness.”
Simultaneously, take a look at how colleagues approach challenges, Ms. Markova suggests. We tend to believe that those who think the way we do are smarter than those who don’t. That can be fatal in business, particularly for executives who surround themselves with like-thinkers. If seniority and promotion are based on similarity to those at the top, chances are strong that the company lacks intellectual diversity.
“Try lacing your hands together,” Ms. Markova says. “You habitually do it one way. Now try doing it with the other thumb on top. Feels awkward, doesn’t it? That’s the valuable moment we call confusion, when we fuse the old with the new.”
AFTER the churn of confusion, she says, the brain begins organizing the new input, ultimately creating new synaptic connections if the process is repeated enough.
But if, during creation of that new habit, the “Great Decider” steps in to protest against taking the unfamiliar path, “you get convergence and we keep doing the same thing over and over again,” she says.
“You cannot have innovation,” she adds, “unless you are willing and able to move through the unknown and go from curiosity to wonder.”
Janet Rae-Dupree writes about science and emerging technology in Silicon Valley.
Tuesday, December 02, 2008
Rosicrucian, Freemanson and Wicca
玫瑰十字会是一個根植于西方神秘传统的秘傳教团,以玫瑰和十字作為它的象徵。該會一直保持神秘,不為外人知曉。直至17世紀初,有人以匿名在德國發表三份關於該會的宣言,外人才知道它的存在。这个赫耳墨斯教团被早期的和许多现代的玫瑰十字会主義者视為一所来自内部位面的“看不见者的学院”,由伟大的法师们组成,目的是协助人类的靈性發展。玫瑰十字会的问候语是“愿玫瑰在你的十字上绽放”。
有一些现代团体自稱是玫瑰十字会的傳承者,不過很多玫瑰十字会历史研究者认为这些现代的玫瑰十字会员并非直接传承自17世纪的玫瑰十字会,他们只不过是热心的追随者。有人认为17世纪的玫瑰十字会根本不曾存在過,它只是一个文字骗局或恶作剧,也有人认为當時的玫瑰十字会是後來一些真實存在的社团的起源。
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Friendship
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
人生
- Picture's name: At the edge, from flickr
人生
0歲出場,
10歲快樂成長;
20為情徬徨;
30基本定向;
40拼命打闖;
50回頭望望;
60告老還鄉;
70搓搓麻將;
80曬曬太陽;
90躺在床上;
100掛在牆.
生的偉大,死得淒涼!
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能牽手的時候,請別只是肩並肩,
能擁抱的時候,請別只是手牽手,
能在一起的時候,請別輕易分開!
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當大部分人都在關注你飛得高不高時,
只有少部分人關心你飛得累不累
---------這就是友情,再忙也要照顧好自己,朋友雖不常聯繫卻一直惦念!
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一切以健康為中心。
兩個基本點: 遇事瀟灑一點,看事糊塗一點。
三個忘記: 忘記年齡,忘記過去,忘記恩怨。
四個擁有: 無論你有多弱或多強,一定要擁有真正愛你的人,
擁有知心朋友,擁有向上的事業,擁有溫暖的住所。
五個要: 要唱,要跳,要俏,要笑,要苗條。
六個不能: 不能餓了才吃,不能渴了才喝,不能困了才睡,
不能累了才歇,不能病了才檢查,不能老了再後悔!
一切以健康為中心。
兩個基本點: 遇事瀟灑一點,看事糊塗一點。
三個忘記: 忘記年齡,忘記過去,忘記恩怨。
四個擁有: 無論你有多弱或多強,一定要擁有真正愛你的人,
擁有知心朋友,擁有向上的事業,擁有溫暖的住所。
五個要: 要唱,要跳,要俏,要笑,要苗條。
六個不能: 不能餓了才吃,不能渴了才喝,不能困了才睡,
不能累了才歇,不能病了才檢查,不能老了再後悔!
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
What career will suit your personality?
What career will suit your personality?This description is a generalisation. If it rings true, you've found your career type. If it doesn't, return to the quiz, decide whether you answered truthfully, and not by what you think you should answer. Redo your answers and read your new results. |
You would be very happy in a career that utilised your level-headedness, and allowed you to work mainly on your own. You want a career that allows you to stimulate your senses and your mind, without having to be involved with lots of people. Some careers that would be perfect for you are:
You are very practical, and only act after thinking things through. You don't like being forced to answer quickly. You have to evaluate the situation completely. You make decisions based on what you can verify with your senses. You like to be involved deeply in one or two special projects. You like to be behind the scenes. You are very logical and fair. You feel you should be honest with others at all costs. You trust what is certain. You only like new ideas if they can be practically applied to the situation. You value what is real. You use your common sense. You like to utilise the skills you have instead of learning new ones. You are very specific and detailed when writing or talking to others. You follow directions well. You like things to be laid out for you to do instead of working them out for yourself. You like decisions to be made. You don't like things to be left in limbo. You like to know what you are getting into before you commit to something. You like to focus on the here and now. You enjoy completing projects. It is important for you to achieve and succeed. Therefore, you believe in working hard and playing later. You like to set goals and work towards them. |
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Party Fortnightly「兩週一聚」
Colour
The Ultimate Color Test |
Thoughtful and sensitive When you are moved to act, you are: Confident and optimistic When you are inspired, you are: Spontaneous and adventurous When your life is perfectly balanced, you are: Light hearted and funny Your life's purpose is: To change the world |
Dear Joy, Welcome to the family! November 15, 2008
remember to always…
Be understanding of your partner’s needs.
Hold each other in the highest regard.
Have a sense of humour as you meet life’s challenges.
Honour one another when you are together or apart.
Respect each other’s differences.
Enjoy the good times, and endure the storms.
Make your dreams come true, together…
Most of all, love one another…
取?捨?
Friday, November 14, 2008
陳淑樺 - 笑紅塵 & 滾滾紅塵
笑紅塵 - 陳淑樺 曲︰李宗盛 詞︰厲曼婷 編︰鮑比達
*紅塵多可笑 癡情最無聊
目空一切也好
此生未了 心卻已無所擾
只想換得半世逍遙
#醒時對人笑 夢中全忘掉
嘆天黑得太早
來生難料 愛恨一筆勾消
對酒當歌我只願開心到老
+風再冷不想逃 花再美也不想要
任我逍遙
天越高心越小 不問因果有多少
獨自醉倒
今天哭明天笑 不求有人能明瞭
一身驕傲
歌在唱舞在跳 長夜慢慢不覺曉
將快樂尋找
重唱 *,#,+,+,+
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