天意+人為=人生

http://www.okcupid.com/online.dating.persona.test

Fun test we have just done. It says so match to and true about both of us!! Please find time to do it yourself and ask your partner to do too!!

When Ed's result came out in the screen, we immediately bursted out laughing non-stop cos it says so true about him.  My Martian, he is definately what it says he is, as in the first picture/description :)) So,  "Man-child" does really exist!!??!

I did the same test for more than 4 times and gained similiar results as you can see below, the 2-5 picture/description. And,

Let me know which one of those 4 do u think I really am?

Love and regards
Jane

我倆做了上列網址的一個關於如何在兩性間相處／自處的試驗！

我們覺得它的得出的答案非常貼切！

下列第１副是阿祖得到的答案和插圖，當我們看到那似小童和成人的合成圖時我們立刻第一時間非常大聲地爆笑出來了！太不可思議了！也太貼切了吧？！

我以為他是異族；我也意為是他性座的雙重性格使然；原來世上還真有這樣的一種男人！?

後來我不甘心，還讓他重做一遍，叫他想清楚。他的答案可能是他正在做了，卻未必是他想要做的＝例一題問：你看Ａ片嗎？我自己從不會選擇看A片，也很討厭。後來我在想，縱然我和大部分女性一樣都不喜歡／不重視官感刺激，但如過有看Ａ片之時也不是完全不動容的。於是我就把答案改了，結果真的有點兒不同。

而他呢，第二次得出來總結論驚然完全一樣～～

餘下的２﹣５全是我重復做了超過４次的總結論，大致上還是同一類重視love的人，而且還是deliberate的。你看看那一個對我是比較貼切？

（１）The Manchild 隨意冷酷的愛情夢想家 Random Brutal Love Dreamer (RBLD) Hopeful. Awkward. Soft-headed. Fire intrigues you. You are The Manchild. Okay, Manchildren have some good qualities. They can be unpredictable, brash, magnetic--and therefore highly charismatic. Particularly, you're passionate and are often a hell of a lot of fun. 有希望的／令人尷尬的／傻的／愚笨的／無判斷能力＝火也能讓你著迷＝你就是個小男孩。難以捉模／盛氣凌人／自以為是／富有吸引力／號召力／熱情／愛玩。天呀！我究竟嫁了給個什麼樣的人？外在的他是位專業人士，衣著談吐體面、從容地在外界冷漠無情地生存下來。感恩的是，他有非凡的自制能力；而讓我難過的是長期被壓抑的他，日子過得痛苦得沒人明瞭！我也不能。因為我是永遠的快樂主義者。也就是這樣，下列的我原來和他是最相配的一對。好奇怪的組合。原來神的安排是最奇妙的！ But we'd like you to consider not using OkCupid. You can be unthinking and hurtful, and we think you LIKE seeing bad things happen. You've had a moderate number of relationships, but broken a disproportionate number of hearts. In total, you mean well, but don't really have it together. 他是完全不思濾也不設想後果的。談過戀愛的次數和傷害過別人的心是不成正比的！＝他悄悄地讓人對他動了心卻又忘了！他以他找到了一位在世上只有她一人懂得愛他的人，其實是他懂的自足吧。是我對自己的自我評價太低了吧，我想如果我的生命中沒有神和他的話我早就沉淪到谷低深處了。 It's up to you, of course, whether to continue dating. There are plenty of women out there who do deserve you. But you've heard our advice.If you stay ... Your exact male opposite: The Bachelor Deliberate Gentle Sex Master Always avoid: The Dirty Little Secret (DGSM) Consider: The Sudden Departure (RBLM)

（２）The Priss 明確冷酷的愛情夢想家 Deliberate Brutal Love Dreamer (DBLD) Mature. Responsible. Aristocratic. Excuse me. The Priss.成熟負責的貴族 Prisses are the smartest of all female types. You're highly perceptive, and confident in your judgements. You'd take brutal honesty over superficiality any time--your friends always know where they stand with you. You're completely unfake. Don't tell me that's not a word. You're also excellent at redirecting internal negative energy.  These facts indicate people are often intimidated by you. They also fall for you, hard. You have a distant, composed allure that many find irresistible. If only more of them lived up to your standards. 思索敏捷，追求真誠相對而不受不了任何一絲嘍虛情假意的存在。內心存不下任何負面的能量！冷淡的平靜讓身邊的人深深地為你著了迷。 You were probably the last among your friends to have sex. And the first to pretend that you're pregnant. LOL. Though you're inclined to use sex as weapon, at least it's not as one of mass destruction. You're choosier than most about your partners. A supportive relationship is what you're really after. Whether you know it or not, you need something steady & long-term. And soothing. 你需要支持性的感情關係，無論你知道與否，你的心是需要被長期穩定地撫慰著。 Your exact female opposite: The Playstation Random Gentle Sex Master Always avoid: The Playboy (RGSM), The Loverboy (RGLM) Consider: The Manchild (RBLD)

（３）The Battleaxe Deliberate Brutal Love Master (DBLM) 明確冷酷的愛情專家＝悍婦 Sharp. Hardened. Dominating. The Battleaxe sweeps all before her, smiting and what not.  You've had a number of serious relationships, so you obviously have many attractive qualities. You're well experienced in dealing with other people's weirdnesses, and it's likely you're good in bed by now, too. Also, like the drunken housewife chucking Heinekens at her no-good husband, you've got a lot of energy. 鮮明銳利、嚴肅無情、愛支配的悍婦橫掃眼前一切。有過幾段很認真的感情交往，所以你是很有吸引力的。別人異常怪異的性格你也豐富地處理過。就像喝醉了的主婦向她那不好的丈夫扔下酒瓶一樣＝你是充滿活力的。 People can tell you're sophisticated, and so you find yourself the object of infatuations quite often. But it's how you handle yourself in your relationships that gets you the 'brutal' tag. Controlling? Imperious? Overbearing? Yes, please. Remarkably, you don't mind the same from your men. You've experience enough to take whatever you dish out. Overall, you're a very good person and a capable lover, and when the time comes you'll make a fine divorcee. 人們都看得出你複雜世故高水平特別，因此是被熱戀的目標。控制蠻橫跋扈＝愛的深切就是你的代名詞。顯然地，你渴望能同等地被對待。希望熱烈地愛與被愛，總括來說，你是個很好的人，好的愛人，有機會的話，你也會是個好的離婚者。 Your exact female opposite: The Nurse Random Gentle Sex Dreamer Always avoid: The Poolboy (RGSD) Consider: The False Messiah (DBLM), someone just like you.

（４）The Wild Rose 隨意冷酷愛情夢想家  Random Brutal Love Dreamer (RBLD) Colorful, but unpicked. You are The Wild Rose. Prone to bouts of cynicism, sarcasm, and thorns, you excite a certain kind of man. Hoping to gather you up, he flirts and winks and asks you out, ultimately professing his love. Then you make him bleed. Why? Because you're the rare, independent, self-sufficient kind of woman who does want love, but not from a weakling. You don't seem to take yourself too seriously, and that's refreshing. You aren't uptight; you don't over-plan. Romance-wise, sex isn't a top priority--a true relationship would be preferable. For your age, you haven't had a lot of bonafide love experience, though, and this kind of gets to core of the issue. You're very selective. The problem is them, not you, right? You have lofty standards that few measure up to. You're out there all right, but not to be picked up by just anyone. 豐富多彩的野花，愛挖苦嘲諷的刺，讓某些男人著迷卻受傷。獨立自足不需要愛情也不是弱不禁風之輩。從容不愛計畫，追求真愛。 Your exact female opposite: The Dirty Little Secret Deliberate Gentle Sex Master Always avoid: The Bachelor (DGSM) Consider: The Vapor Trail (RBLM)

（５）The Dirty Little Secret Deliberate Gentle Sex Master (DGSM) Innocent but fundamentally sexual, like the word "finger". You are the Dirty Little Secret. Few women have the confidence for sex mastery, and among nice girls, like you, it's almost unheard of. So congratulations. You've had plenty of adventures, but you've remained a kind, thoughtful person. Your friends appreciate your exploits. They even live vicariously through you. You seek pleasure, but you're not irresponsible. You are organized and cautious, and you choose your lovers wisely. One, you don't like dirtbags. And two, you like to maintain control. Or at least lose it selectively. You might notice that older men single you out. They have an eye for your sensual nature. Take it as a compliment. You enjoy making people happy, and it's inevitable that many guys will fall harder for you than you for them. You're not completely comfortable in a serious, long-term relationship right now. Our guess is that the key to extended happiness will be finding a responsible, but kinky, mate. 愛撲火卻保持體貼慈祥﹣你是少有的好人。朋友們喜歡和你暢談共度人生。尋求人生樂趣卻非不負責任。有規畫和謹慎的你，討厭輕浮之輩，要一切的得到和失去都在控制之內。愛讓人快樂，卻不在平穩的感情裡感到快樂，可能喜歡些反常的平穩。 Your exact female opposite: The Wild Rose Random Brutal Love Dreamer Always avoid: The Hornivore (RBSM), The Manchild (RBLD), The Last Man on Earth (RBSD) Consider: The Bachelor (DGSM), The Backrubber (DGSD)